6 Critical Things First-Time Sitters Need to Know
1. Not Everyone You Hope for May Come Through
The spirit you most want to hear from may not be the first—or only—one who communicates. Sometimes unexpected spirits come through with messages you didn't know you needed. Trust the process. Spirits come through for a reason, usually with a message grounded in love and healing.
2. Information May Be Symbolic
Mediums receive impressions in different ways—images, feelings, words, or symbols. Think of it like a game of charades. A rose might represent a garden, or it could mark an anniversary. The medium's role is to relay these impressions, not to interpret them for you.
If something is unclear, ask for more information without providing extra details yourself. You might say something like, "I can take the rose but not the garden." Evidence builds piece by piece, so keep the conversation flowing and engage with your voice—it amplifies the connection between you and your loved one.
3. Timing Varies—Some Details Make Sense Later
Some information may not resonate immediately but could be validated later through:
Family members who knew details you didn't
Old photographs you discover
Documents you find
Memories that surface after the reading
Keep your notes and recording. Review them periodically as clarity often comes with time.
4. Emotions Are Completely Normal
Expect to experience a range of feelings during your reading:
Tears of sadness, joy, or relief
Laughter—spirits often share humor
Surprise or shock
Overwhelming love
Skepticism mixed with wonder
Exhaustion afterward, as emotional processing can be draining
Experienced mediums are accustomed to these reactions and create safe, supportive environments where all emotions are welcome.
5. Recording and Note-Taking Are Essential
You'll likely miss details in the emotional moment. Recording your session allows you to:
Catch names or specifics you didn't initially grasp
Share evidence with family members for verification
Revisit the reading when you need comfort
Recognize patterns or messages you missed the first time
Most mediums encourage recording—it's a valuable tool for reflection and validation.
6. Healthy Skepticism Is Welcome
You don't need to accept everything on faith. Evidential mediumship welcomes scrutiny. The specificity of information is meant to convince you through evidence, not require blind belief. A good medium appreciates discerning clients who thoughtfully evaluate what comes through.
Conclusion
Preparing for your first mediumship reading means balancing open-hearted curiosity with realistic expectations. Spirit communication is surprising and deeply personal, but the messages that come through are meant for your healing journey.
For a complete guide to preparing for your session, read What to Expect from Your First Evidential Mediumship Reading.